Even I have the mouth open and raised eyebrows as far as I allow the forehead muscles.
Imagine the situation: a person with whom you've never been particularly well (in fact, have spent years with little or no contact) starts off the bat, to share personal issues with you because - as says - is going through a stage a little dark. Despite this confidentiality bothering you that you have not looked (or you're interested) to seek a correct answer by pure education, but at no point do you stop an invitation to continue trusting in you.
However she not only takes cognizance, but continues telling their secrets, as if he had done all his life ... and you still do not give up, hoping to get the idea. Then one day tells you how much he is happy to bring your well. That is thrilled that you be so friendly. And you gasped and ojiplática, convinced that this person has a misconception (and somewhat pathetic) what is friendship. What is more, is making such efforts to please me, that makes me more and more rejection.